Quick 9 for Personal Growth through Golf

By: Andrew Olivo, Age 16, First Tee – Central Florida

1. How does golf relate to life? ​

Golf relates to life as it teaches many important qualities such as respect, responsibility, and judgment. These characteristics help me to make the right decisions in life and place me on a path for success.

2. How does golf challenge you to be a better person?

​Golf challenges me to be a better person by placing me in situations to embrace the life lessons that I learn. For example, on the course, I have to always be honest with myself, even when nobody’s watching.

3. What is your favorite part about playing golf? ​

My favorite part about playing golf is spending time on the golf course with my dad. He is usually very busy with work so it’s nice to have some bonding time with him on the course to talk and play.

4. What golf skill helps you the most off the course? ​

Perseverance helps me the most off the course as it pushes me to do my best despite challenges or difficulties I may face in achieving my goals.

5. How can golf make you a more well-rounded individual? ​

Golf makes me a more well-rounded individual by teaching me a variety of skills and characteristics that I use in my day to day life. For example, golf helps to build my self confidence and practice respect towards adults and peers in my life.

6. How are you inspired through golf?

​I am inspired through golf to continue to improve as I play competitively in tournaments and on my high school team. In addition, as a junior assistant coach, it has inspired me to give back to my community and teach younger golfers the game of golf and important life lessons.

7. How have you grown up over the past year?

​Over the past year, I have learned to take on more responsibilities and leadership roles. For example, I am dedicating more time to junior coaching classes in First Tee. In school, I have become more active in clubs and organizations that I am a member of.

8. What or who motivates you? ​

My parents motivate me to work hard and try my best in golf and school. They teach me to always be a good person and lead by example.

9. What is your personal growth goal? ​

My personal growth goal is to keep working hard in school to be accepted in a highly rated university. In addition to developing my academics, I also want to continue focusing on maintaining my health and fitness through physical activity.

Kelvin Williams – Lessons in Leadership

At First Tee, we guide kids to strengthen what’s inside and put it into action because strong character, inner strength and resilience is needed now more than ever. This month we are talking to leaders within our Network about their experiences and key lessons learned over the course of their careers.

Kelvin Williams, Senior Vice President, Business Operations at First Tee Headquarters

What is your current role at First Tee and what is the most rewarding part of your job?

Senior Vice President, Business Operations. Definitely helping others be successful. And knowing that what we do is making a difference in the lives of young people.

This month we’re celebrating Black History Month and lifting up voices of Black participants, coaches and leaders exploring what it means to be a leader. What does leadership mean to you?

It means being a good example, practicing what I preach, and doing what I say I am going to do.  It also means being consistent and maintaining a great attitude no matter what… Attitude reflects leadership.

Did you always know you wanted to be in a leadership role? Can you share a little bit about your journey and how you’ve developed into your current role?

Yes. It started with my parents. People really respected them because of their strong work ethic and the manner in which they carried themselves. They would often get asked to lead various activities at church, work or in the community, and I knew one day I wanted follow in their footsteps. As I began my career, I held on to those qualities and observed others in leadership roles.  I learned what to do and what not to do, and from there I developed my own leadership style, which helped me to advance up the ladder and into the role I currently serve in.

Who were some of the strong voices or mentors in your life that inspired you?

My Wife, Parents and Pastors.

Can you give an example of a challenge you have faced in your career and how have you worked to overcome it?

Absolutely.  17 years ago, as a new manager, I was struggling trying to find ways to motivate one of my team members, and it really drove me crazy because I could not get this guy to perform at a higher level . Later that year, I went to a manager/leadership seminar and it was very enlightening. My biggest take way from the seminar was the effective listening session, and I was inspired and determined to take what I learned back to my office and try it on the team member I was struggling to motivate. And it worked! By listening, I was able to get to know him and build a relationship, which fostered trust. And in return, he trusted me and shared his goals and dreams with me. And because of that I was finally able to help him be successful because I listened to him and learned how to get his engine going.

How does or can First Tee play a role in bringing more diversity to our game?

By continuing to provide all young people, regardless of race, gender or social economic background, the opportunity to participate. And being intentional about hiring and recruiting leadership that looks like the community we want to serve.

What advice do you have for young people entering the job market determined to make a career for themselves?

  1. Do what you say you’re going to do.
  2. Don’t let anyone out work you.
  3. Pay your dues.
  4. Have fun!

Monica Blake – Lessons in Leadership

At First Tee, we guide kids to strengthen what’s inside and put it into action because strong character, inner strength and resilience is needed now more than ever. This month we are talking to leaders within our Network about their experiences and key lessons learned over the course of their careers.

Monica Blake, First Tee – Central Arkansas

What is your current role at First Tee and what is the most rewarding part of your job?

My name is Monica Blake and I am the Executive Director of First Tee-Central Arkansas. The most rewarding part of my job is making a positive impact on the lives of the youth and families we serve in Central Arkansas. As the Executive Director I’m able to serve as the voice of our participants and advocate on their behalf. I am also a certified First Tee coach and I have been intentional about staying involved in the coaching process. I believe that in order to be a successful leader it’s important that I stay connected to our participants and our mission. As the Executive Director, it’s essential to be a good steward of our donors and sponsoring donations and it’s very rewarding to see those contributions directly impact the youth that we serve.

This month we’re celebrating Black History Month and lifting up voices of Black participants, coaches and leaders exploring what it means to be a leader. What does leadership mean to you?

I believe that leadership isn’t about a title or position that you hold, but that it’s about the difference you make in someone’s life. As the leader of First Tee- Central Arkansas it’s important that I’m putting everyone within our organization in a position to not only be  successful, but to facilitate an environment where each participant, coach, and volunteer aspire to be the change they seek in the lives of the youth that we serve.

Did you always know you wanted to be in a leadership role? Can you share a little bit about your journey and how you’ve developed into your current role?

My journey with First Tee began in an entry level role as a volunteer coach in 2012. It was in this role, I realized the value that each position within the organization holds, and how it’s sometimes the person who’s the initial point of contact, that can make the biggest impact on a participant. As I reflect on my growth in the organization, and how my career has progressed, I was extremely fortunate for the opportunity to serve as a volunteer. It was instrumental in laying a foundation of what it means to serve and how to incorporate service into my leadership style. I quickly moved into the role of a paid coach and from there I was promoted to Program Director, where I served for 6 years. Being the Program Director allowed me to connect with the curriculum we were teaching and our mission as an organization and how it impacts each participant. In 2019, I became the first female African-American Executive Director of First Tee-Central Arkansas. I know it was every role that I’ve served, which helped prepare me for this amazing opportunity within this organization and has put me in the greatest position to be successful .

Who were some of the strong voices or mentors in your life that inspired you?

Harold Banks has been a mentor to not only myself, but to countless golfers throughout the Central Arkansas area. Harold was always willing to share his knowledge, skills and expertise with everyone in the golf community. He always had a positive attitude and took a personal interest in mentoring the next generation. Harold was instrumental in advancing black golfers in Little Rock and often his advice extended far beyond the golf course. He was respected by golfers throughout Central Arkansas and left a lasting impact on golfers for generations to come. The impact Harold has made on our community is something that truly inspires and motivates me to become a mentor and leader in the community.

Can you give an example of a challenge you have faced in your career and how have you worked to overcome it?

Having to lead during a pandemic was certainly a challenge and continues to be each day. One important lesson I’ve learned is how to constantly adapt to ever changing  circumstances and continue to modify and adjust as necessary. Flexibility and the power of teamwork are key pillars I have to lean on. Together, as an organization, we were able to navigate through our new circumstances and now we’re in a position to advance our organization even further. We were forced to evaluate our operations through a different lens, and I feel programming has benefited as a result.

How does or can First Tee play a role in bringing more diversity to our game? 

First Tee has the opportunity to play a fundamental role in increasing diversity in golf, especially in Central Arkansas.  The mission of our organization has always been to introduce our programming to underserved communities and now we have the opportunity to lead the charge in bringing diversity and inclusion into the game of golf. This is done by elevating black voices within the community and developing a plan to identify the disconnections and expanding opportunities for minorities. As an organization it is our responsibility to ensure that all participants are having an equitable experience.

What advice do you have for young people entering the job market determined to make a career for themselves?

My advice for young people entering the job market would be to find something that you are passionate about and where you can make a difference. Golf has always played a significant role in my life and as I’ve grown older so has the desire to help people in my community. I’m very fortunate to now serve in a role where I get to blend these two together. It is important to make an impact on the world around you and to help those who are in need.

Coach Dustin Marsh – Lessons in Leadership

At First Tee, we guide kids to strengthen what’s inside and put it into action because strong character, inner strength and resilience is needed now more than ever. This month we are talking to leaders within our Network about their experiences and key lessons learned over the course of their careers.

Coach Dustin Marsh, First Tee – Central Carolina

What is your current role at First Tee, how long have you been in that role and what is the most rewarding part of your job?

Currently, I am a recognized First Tee Coach. I have been coaching with The First Tee since 2009.

This month we’re celebrating Black History Month and lifting up voices of Black participants, coaches and leaders exploring what it means to be a leader. As a coach, you’re both a mentor and leader to the participants in the program. What does that mean to you?

It means a great deal to me! Many people get to middle age and find themselves in a job or career that they did not foresee. They get caught up in making a living. They may or may not like what they do. I like what I do but, before I started with The First Tee I was not participating in my community as I thought I needed to. I was searching for something to fill a void in my being. When I was young, I was an education major but, life happened and I took an opportunity to work in computer technology. Now that I am coaching with The First Tee, I feel like I’m exercising the same passion I had when I was on a path to be an educator.

How important is it for participants to see diverse leaders like yourself and others coaching at the chapter?

It’s extremely important that our participants experience the program from a diverse range of leaders and with diverse peers. I think specifically about some of the kids I have coached over the years who have gone on to college and professional careers, and I know having diverse coaches was instrumental in not only attracting them to the program, but also keeping them engaged for the long run.  At the end of the day, it’s about making kids feel welcome and comfortable, and when a kid can see themselves in me or another black or brown coach, that increases the likelihood they will want to come back.

Who were some of the strong voices or mentors in your life that inspired you?

Many of my coaches made strong impressions on me for various reasons. Some of my teachers inspired me as well. However, I think the strongest voices in my life were those that exemplified and instilled the importance of decency toward others.

What accomplishment are you most proud of in your life or career?

One thing I’m most proud of is my track record of community service, specifically through First Tee – Central Carolina.  I’ve been doing this for over 11 years.  It isn’t always convenient or easy in my schedule, but it has been worth it.  I’m proud that kids have called me a mentor even when I didn’t think I was, and that I’ve been able to help them figure out all how to deal with the hard things life has thrown at them.

Can you give an example of a challenge you have faced in your career and how have you worked to overcome it?

A challenge that I have faced in my career is leading teams of people and how to get the best results possible.  What I’ve learned is that you have to know what motivates them and what their strengths and weaknesses are.  This takes time and building relationships.  Once you know these details, you can put people where they are going to be the most effective and the whole team benefits.  I’ve done the same thing in the First Tee classes I coach.  I try to learn as quickly as I can why a kid is there and what they are looking to get out of the experience.  Once I know this, I can adapt my coaching to best match their needs.  Like we are trained in the First Tee Coach Program, match the activity to the child and not the child to the activity.

How does or can First Tee play a role in bringing more diversity to our game?

I think we must continue to find ways to make golf inviting to a diverse group of people. There isn’t one way to bring more diversity to golf. We have to try every approach we can come up with. It’s not something that can be accomplished overnight. Golf used to be a sport that was available to only those with financial means and making it more inclusive is going to take time and perseverance. There is a lot of untapped talent that golf has yet to tap into. It ultimately comes down to building relationships in your community that are genuine and time tested.  The opportunities to be more diverse can be hard to initially see, but if your focus is on building relationships, the opportunities to engage with black and brown communities will become more apparent.  When it comes to this type of work, don’t worry about being the first one there, focus on being the last one standing.

What leadership advice or concept do you think is most important for your participants to know?

Focus on the process, not the outcome.

Angela “Coach Angel” Whorton, First Tee — Greater Akron

Coach Angel has been an educator for 15 years. She earned a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology and a Master of Arts in Elementary Education from Hampton University, where she attended on a full NCAA Division I scholarship helping lead her team in March Madness. After graduation, Coach Angel traveled extensively and was invited to speak on diversity and educational practices. She began her teaching career in Turkey, teaching English as a Second Language before going back home, to Akron, Ohio where she is currently an educator at the Lebron James IPromise school. Coach Angel was introduced to First Tee 8 years ago when her son, John Ramon, joined the program. She joined in not long after and has been coaching at First Tee — Greater Akron for 7 years.  “I feel it is important to stay involved in the First Tee to offer the kids in my urban community the opportunity to play a sport that they may have not felt was in their realm of abilities.  When we begin working with these athletes we open a whole new world for them while developing their character through the Core Values to instill a solid foundation for success.  I also feel it is essential to have representation in the world of golf and being able to interact and develop friendships and perspectives with people in the golf community that may have otherwise never built a relationship with someone in the Black community such as myself.” Coach Angel is just one of the many inspirational coaches across our network and we invite you to learn more about her journey and thoughts on leadership in the video below.

A Third Dimension to Golf at Home Kits

First Tee Seattle was able to introduce and teach nearly 1,000 youth in person at golf courses in 2020, which has been a huge accomplishment and highlight for our community. However, due to a cancelled spring session, smaller class sizes, and limited capacity, many more young people were not able to participate this year. So, in May, we set out to raise the funds and begin creating and distributing “Golf at Home” kits to kids in our community. To date, we have handed out more than 300 kits, and we have another 600 on the way to local schools.

 

Each kit includes a custom-sized golf club and a kit bag, assembled with both practice golf balls and a traditional golf ball, putting target, activity booklet, and accessories. Each of these items was creatively sourced at the lowest cost we could find, and then put together with our most valuable resource: human power. The community has rallied behind our efforts, donating hundreds of golf clubs, and helping us assemble and distribute the kits to kids throughout King and Snohomish County.

Among those inspired by the Golf at Home kits effort was 17-year-old Brandon Bui, a long-time participant at First Tee Seattle. Brandon joined the First Tee in 2014 at the age of 10, worked his way up to the “Eagle” level in the program, earned a spot on his high school varsity golf team, and now serves as a junior volunteer coach at First Tee Seattle. Little did we know, Brandon is also an aspiring computer science expert and whiz with a 3-D printer. He noticed that each Golf at Home kit included a putting target, which looked like something he might be able to replicate with his 3-D printer at home.

Brandon got to work designing a replica of the putting target, including even the little attached flagstick. It wasn’t easy at first, and took a couple of hours to make the first few. But with some ingenuity and perseverance, Brandon dedicated his workload (and many late nights) to creating 100 perfectly crafted putting cups for the project!

We caught up with Brandon as he delivered his amazing gift to First Tee.

Video Interview:

 

Q&A with Brandon:

 
1) How did you get introduced to golf?

Golf has always been a part of my life, I remember going to the driving range since I was young or driving the golf cart for my dad as he played.  After years of learning golf on my own I joined The First Tee in sixth grade.  I didn’t get really serious about golf until after I made my high school’s golf team my freshman year.  Ever since then golf has just been a big part of life.

2) What are your dreams for your future?

I plan on going to UW to study computer science and cyber security and maybe play club golf.  (I actually just turned my applications in today).  After college I plan to work at a big tech company and maybe start my own company.

3) Who is a role model of yours?

A big role model in my life would definitely be my dad.  He is always the one that teaches me right from wrong, makes sure I use please and thank you, and address everyone by sir and ma’am.  He’s also my golf buddy, whether it’s just a muni course like Jackson Park or a world class golf resort like Bandon, we always enjoy playing with each other…well, most of the time.

4) Favorite golf memory?

My favorite golf memory was when I found out I had made my high school’s varsity golf team my freshman year.  The two rounds of golf I played during tryouts felt like my worst rounds ever.  A few days after try-outs we had left for Oregon.  I was constantly checking my emails that day, refreshing every five minutes until I saw the email.  We were driving down the freeway somewhere between Seattle and Portland when I had gotten it.  I opened the email… and to my surprise, I had made the team.  I never felt such a sense of accomplishment before that.

 

Thank you Brandon.

You really are a Game Changer!

 
 

Coaches Tell Stories – Bill Pharr

Golf is the best sport for having fun and learning crucial life skills.  Period.  That’s it.  That’s my article…What?  You want me to explain myself?  OK.  I will give it my best shot!!!

I started playing golf at age 15 in sunny San Diego, where I played 2 years of junior golf. From there I moved to Claremont McKenna College where I was the team captain all four years, league individual champion two years and first team all-league four years. Later in life I would become the CFO of Cobra golf in 1979 and most recently have been the assistant coach for Holy Names Academy. The very fabric of the game of golf teaches golfers about themselves and about life. To help guide players on their lifelong journey, The First Tee uses its Nine Core Values to highlight what those lessons can be. Here are a few short stories that exemplify life learning through our beloved game. A couple of seasons ago, I was hanging around with some coaches at the end of a dual golf match between high school teams. A player on my team came up to the coaches at the end of the round and asked for a ruling. During the round, a player from the other team had hit her ball under a tree. To hit the next shot, the opposing player had a teammate hold a branch back so she had room to take a full swing at the ball (unfortunately, this is against the rules). My team member (the player asking for the ruling) had the foresight to announce to her opponent (the player hitting the ball) that she would ask for a ruling upon completion of play. Note: the player hitting the shot did not have a clue about the rule, and there was no intent to gain an advantage. The girl asking for the ruling was a First Tee participant!!! She used courtesy in announcing her intent to ask for a ruling. She was confident in her handling of the situation and used good judgment. She showed respect to her opponent and demonstrated sportsmanship. And, she was correct in her knowledge of the rule. Key point: the player in the story was prepared. More importantly: the skills she exhibited are those she will use for all aspects of her life going forward. To all of the current First Tee participants please, do not overlook the power of the Nine Core Values and the impact they have on your current and future life. Many years ago, I was playing in the finals of a match play tournament. I was 2 up after 23 of 36 holes in the match. My drive was down the middle and my opponent’s drive was in the right rough. When we came together at the green he announced that his ball had moved when he addressed it. As a result of the penalty stroke I won the hole and eventually the match. I will never forget the integrity, honesty and sportsmanship it took for him to announce a penalty on himself. As I got to know him better in following years, I learned that he ran his business in that same highly principled and honest manner. Key point: do you think there is a connection between how a person acts on the golf course and in real life?  Yes!!! One more story. During qualifying for the USGA Junior Amateur, I stood on the 18th tee and thought I was out of contention. I hooked my tee shot out of bounds and ended up taking a triple bogey. Turns out, if I had made a par, I would have been one of the qualifiers. I was distraught and devastated. In walking to the parking lot after the trophy ceremony, where a number of my fellow competitors greeted and consoled me (I wasn’t the only one who almost qualified). Everyone of those players that consoled me demonstrated Respect, Courtesy, and Sportsmanship. The nice gestures made me feel good at a time where I was really down. Key point: After this, I learned perseverance. I continued to work on my game and ended up having some good tournaments later on. I never again stopped trying my best before a round was over. Golf, good or bad, is about learning how to plan your way around the course. The First Tee is about learning to golf and learning how to plan your way through life, incorporating the Nine Core Values into your actions along the way. At my seemingly ancient age of almost 68, I would like to say to all First Tee Participants, please take the Nine Core Values to heart and incorporate them all into your actions – starting right now. Before you know it you will be 68 and writing articles telling people how to lead their lives…
Coach Bill with his team from Holy Names Academy, 2017-18 Metro League Champions!
Coach Bill with his son, Russell at Sandpoint CC. Russell is an Eagle Scout, a UW graduate, and an Elephant Keeper at Point Defiance Zoo!
                   

Coaches Tell Stories – Chris Villasenor

We asked Coach Chris Villasenor to share his relationship with Honesty, and honestly, we felt like you’d want to take a look! One of the Nine Core Values of the First Tee is Honesty. We often frame this around our behavior on the course: are we counting the right number of strokes, are we following the rules, do we have the proper number of clubs in our bag.  However, Honesty stretches far beyond this into other aspects of golf as well as life. When we’re practicing golf to improve, can you be honest with yourself as to your strengths and weaknesses? Many players will simply play to their strengths on the practice tee but an honest player can look at their game objectively then decide to focus on the things that will help them improve the most. In fact, whether it’s golf, music, Fortnite, or school (you can put these in any order you’d like) being honest about your shortcomings and addressing them in some way can improve your overall performance as well as your enjoyment. Honesty, let’s be honest, is sometimes the harder road but like anything, it takes practice. In many cases, we cannot choose our outcomes but if you come to them via Honesty, you can always hold your head up. There are going to be people in the world who tell you, “that band you like is no good,” or “that movie you like is terrible” or “why are you friends with that person?” The honest response is that you don’t have to defend these kinds of choices. Finding your passion is a true form of Honesty and I encourage you to be honest with your parents, teachers, and friends… but most importantly with yourself!  
Coach Chris with his PGA Jr. League Team!
                     

Coaches Tell Stories – Val Patrick

Dealing With Challenges by Coach Val Patrick

I consider myself an upbeat, confident, patient and positive person, and I am the “glass is half full” personality.  What I have learned over the years about challenges is that they come to us and through us – through many streams and in many ways.

Growing up for example, at age 15 my dad was diagnosed with cancer.  He was out of work for over a year.  That presented many challenges for a family of seven people to figure out how we were going to survive.  Where would we get food if dad wasn’t able to work?  How would my mom take care of all of us if my dad did not survive?

I am the oldest of 5, and I had plans to go to college and play on a college [golf] team.  No one in my family had gone to college – I was the first. Would I be able to go if my mom needed me?  Golf was everything to me – literally.  I found myself clinging to my clubs for comfort knowing my dad taught me how to play.  What would I do without him?

That was a HUGE challenge and decision facing me, so my dad and I talked a lot.  He said he wanted me to go to college and not worry about what was going to happen at home.  This was as important for him as it was for me.  He is the one that put a club in my hand when I was 8 years old.  He wanted to see me play college golf.

Fast forward to High School graduation, soon it would be time for me to leave for college in Miami Florida, a LONG way from home!  Dad and I agreed I would go in August.  He said this is “YOUR TIME.”

“YOU” have worked so hard for this opportunity, and he was right.  Now I had a choice: go or stay home.  I wanted to continue to make him proud.  And so, it was – I left for Florida driving my car with a friend (because the trip would be too much for him).  Saying goodbye was awful. “What if…what if?” kept going through my head.  He said “it’s okay – you go play like you know it. Show the other girls on the team that Michigan has good golfers too!  Not all good golfers come from Florida!”  We laughed and he gave me a big hug.  I got in the car (packed with everything it could hold) and while backing out of the driveway, my mom and dad waving, I hoped this would be the scene when I came home for Winter Break – that he would still be around.

It was close to Thanksgiving and mom called “Val, can you come home?” I said “yes.” She said “good, I think your dad needs to see you.”

Back then, flying was a big deal for a kid.  I flew from Miami to Detroit, my uncle picked me up and we drove 75 miles to our home in Jackson.

Dad had a million questions and was short on energy. I told him how the college team was doing and how the coach was outstanding.  He was happy, that meant everything.

Dealing with challenges: they do not care how old we are, how smart we are, what we are wearing, or who we know.  Challenges are opportunities that help us reach deeper within ourselves to bridge relationships or circumstances that are far out of our control.  I have learned it is important to have the patience to understand the situation (no matter what it looks like) and negotiate the ‘what-if’ scenarios with other people that may be involved, or at times with your own inner voice.  Challenges will always be a way of life, just like what we are all facing now with the monster of all challenges – mitigation of spreading a virus – and it feels like everything has stopped and that time is the force in control, not us.

Stay positive, live positive and face challenges with an open heart and mind.  This is my experience: be patient.  I practice patience.  Breathing exercises and meditation are amazing tools for the heart and mind. When a person has patience – you can overcome challenges.

Patience is a wonderful gift from the universe.

 
Back row from left Coach Mary Dagraedt, and Val
 
Coach Val & Coach Ann Swanson at our Ladies on the Links event in June 2018
 
Val with one of golfs greats, Nancy Lopez
 
Cindy MacNider, LPGA Professional-Phoenix AZ, Shirley Spork, LPGA Founder, and Val
“This is by far my favorite picture. To be standing beside one of the two remaining (living) founders of the LPGA, is such an honor. It’s because of Shirley Spork’s passion, confidence, and perseverance girls and women around the world can be a part of the game of golf!”  

Get to know Coach Ben!

Coach Ben Bergner has been a rock star with The First Tee of Greater Seattle since 2013! Get to know him as he shares how he got his start in the game of golf, his insight, experience and advice for young players!

“I really like golf and I like to have fun with whatever I am doing,” Coach Ben says. “I have been hitting golf balls since I was 2 and have been playing competitively since I was 8, and it is really just about enjoying yourself.  That’s all golf is about.”

What motivates you? “Honestly, I enjoy sharing the game of golf with people, and it’s not always just golf. You learn how to problem solve. Golf is a series of challenges that there is never one answer for, and you always need to think critically. You are always given a different situation and you need to make the best of what you got. What motivates me is that there are always people trying to figure that out and that we are there to help them.” What is your best advice for young players? “Aside from the fact that with every shot you hit, you need to hit the center of the club or as close to it as you can, you have to believe you can hit the shot you are trying to hit. “Frustration comes easily from the ‘golf is hard’ standpoint, but a lot of it is expectations. Players tend to have expectations that aren’t always realistic. Even the pros miss the majority of putts from 10 feet!” Which First Tee lesson or activity is your favorite? “It’s not an actual First Tee lesson, but competition should be fun! I believe in encouraging fun competition to test your skills with different activities and games. Much of life is a competition and we need to have ways to practice that are fun! “One activity that works really well is the Swish Hoop Race – how it works is you set up hoops and hitting stations in an open area – hoops/targets can be modified to accommodate different skill levels. “The goal is to fly a ball into each target hoop – closing that target for the team – and to ‘close out’ the round by closing out all targets, scoring an overall point. After a team hits a ball in a hoop, they must announce their current score. With two hoops, you can just announce ‘first.’ With 3 or more hoops, it works best to use different color hoops and have teams announce loudly the colors they have successfully landed in, e.g. ‘purple and red’ with green hoop remaining. Players within a team alternate a single shot at a time. After each round – rotate groups to new hitting stations.” Favorite golf joke? “I don’t have a favorite golf joke but I do often use ‘FORE’ as a forewarning say if somebody would inadvertently meander outside of the safety zone.” Favorite club in the bag? “I am an equal opportunity clubist! It is a mindset – whatever club I need to hit is the right club!” What hobbies do you have outside of golf? “I honestly like golfing a lot. I have a 3-year-old Rhodesian Ridgeback named Cacao that keeps me busy. I also like playing guitar and have been playing for around 20 years. I enjoy BBQing, smoking foods, going to the beach, and I am up for playing any just about any sport at any time. I keep enough stuff in my trunk so that if anyone ever wants to play a sport, I got it!”
Cacao ☺
Coach Ben’s Smoked Beer Can Chicken
Favorite food? “My mom’s jambalaya! Grilled shrimp, chicken, Portuguese sausage, rice, tomatoes, Creole seasoning – spicy, smoky and just amazing! “I also love sushi and teriyaki – we have such good teriyaki here!” Getting back to your journey through golf, who was it that taught you to play? “My dad. He introduced me to the game. He would take us to the driving range and would drill holes out of wooden clubs to make them lighter. He taught me to play until I was 8 – he wanted me to learn from other people so that I would not get frustrated with him. Even to this day he will watch instructional videos and share with me along with tips on how to incorporate them into my game. We play once or twice a week. He knows my game and has seen it evolve. A special moment was when I shot 64 at Jefferson in February and he said it was the best golf he has seen me play and that was special considering the many rounds we’ve played together.” What is a special memory that you have from teaching the game and its values? “I learned how fearless some participants can become. I remember an Eagle class that I was coaching at Riverbend and would take them out to play on the course. When pairing them up I would ask who wants to play against me and every single time, young Eagle player Cole Reynolds said ‘ME!’ It’s rewarding to see how hard the kids work and their desire to come and prove it. Cole coming to class eager to test himself reminded me of myself and how I used to have the skill to beat my dad but could not prove it when playing against him. It reminded me of me and it is special to see that. I beat my dad for the first time when I was 19 or 20 and that includes A LOT of golf.”
Ben and his dad
  What advice would you give to the aspiring golfer? “Forgive yourself. “If you want to play golf and enjoy it for the long-term, you need to learn to forgive yourself. I don’t consider myself a hot head, but we are all going to hit bad shots and have bad shots multiple times within a round – golf is not a game of perfect. Arnold Palmer used to give himself 7 steps to be emotional and then emotionally done with a shot. 7 steps and it is over – the only shot that matters is the next one.”

Caddie your way to College

For teenagers, caddying is one of the best opportunities to apply yourself, learn, and even earn an income. And for a select few, it can actually lead to a full college scholarship through the Western Golf Association. But it takes hard work, dedication, and perseverance. We are proud to announce that Ace member Thomas Hwang has earned his way to being awarded the Evans Scholarship and will be attending the University of Washington as a freshman in 2020 on a full tuition scholarship!
chasing the dream
Three years ago, Thomas began the pursuit of a college scholarship through caddying, and he never looked back. He knew that if he kept his grades up, stayed involved with volunteer and service opportunities, and made caddying a regular part of his routine, he would have a decent chance of being selected. With his dream in his sights, he created a goal ladder and got to work. Caddying jobs are not easy to come by, however, but fortunately Thomas made a great impression with the membership at Glendale Country Club in Bellevue, where a few members have been committed to supporting the youth caddie program. Early in the morning on weekends, while many of his peers were still fast asleep, Thomas would beat the sunrise to the golf course and be ready for the first rounds of the day. Golfers recognized his work ethic and potential, and Thomas was able to complete more than 60 total caddying rounds in just over two years. “It is no small accomplishment, and I’m glad to see that Thomas stuck with it. He’s a very deserving young man.” A former Evans Scholar himself, Craig knows what it takes to qualify, and he also knows the opportunity that it can provide. He has long advocated for and supported youth caddying opportunities in our area, as both a founding member of the First Tee of Greater Seattle Board of Directors, member of Sahalee Country Club, and an active Director for the Western Golf Association. At Glendale Country Club, where Thomas completed all of his rounds, caddying was not always available for teenagers. But in 2017, member and former caddie Dan Hay decided it was time to launch. He worked with Head Professional Kenney Boyd and Assistant Golf Professional Jack Kelly to propose his plan, and contacted First Tee of Greater Seattle with the goal of recruiting the best candidates. To this day, Mr. Hay continues to support each and every caddie individually, and Jack ensures that those opportunities are made available to them. From the beginning they both recognized Thomas’s drive and work ethic. “We teed the ball up, and Thomas hit it right down the middle,” says Dan Hay. “It’s been a pleasure having him caddie for me on many Saturday mornings, and I am proud to see him now going on to college. His future is bright.”

Thomas after his selection meeting, with uncle (left) and First Tee Program Director Evan Johnsen (right).

What is the Evans Scholarship?
The Chick Evans Scholarship for caddies was started by legendary amateur golfer Charles “Chick” Evans Jr. He learned the game as a caddie, won the 1910 Western Open and gained worldwide fame in 1916, when he became the first to win the U.S. Amateur and U.S. Open in the same year. Evans insisted on preserving his amateur status, and any money he received from golf was put toward caddie scholarships. The first two Evans Scholars enrolled at Northwestern University in 1930. Since then, more than 10,800 men and women have graduated from college as Evans Scholars, and 985 are currently in school. The Western Golf Association, founded in 1899, has supported the Evans Scholarship since its inception. The Chick Evans Scholarship for caddies is a grant that covers full tuition and housing in an Evans Scholarship House and may be renewed for up to four years.
Who is eligible for an Evans scholarship?
To be eligible to apply for a Chick Evans Scholarship for caddies, candidates must meet the following requirements:
  1. Strong caddie record: applicants must have caddied, regularly and successfully, for a minimum of two years and are expected to caddie at their sponsoring club the year they apply for the Scholarship.
  2. Excellent academics: Applicants must have completed their junior year of high school with above a B average in college preparatory courses and are required to take the ACT and/or SAT.
  3. Demonstrated financial need: Applicants must clearly have a need for financial assistance.
  4. Outstanding character: Applicants must be outstanding in character, integrity and leadership. (via WGA Evans Scholarship Foundation)
 
Thomas’s story, in his own words:
Hi everyone! I’m Thomas Hwang, a First Tee of Greater Seattle participant as well as a Chick Evans Scholar. This experience/adventure of being both a participant and a scholar started back in my summer vacation, where I was transitioning from being a 5th grade elementary school student to a 6th grade middle school student.  During this time, I wanted to try every activity/sport to figure out what I liked best.  At one point, I was swimming, playing basketball, playing soccer, and playing the violin all at the same time! One day, my mom asked if I wanted to learn how to play golf. At first, I didn’t want to because I only heard of the stereotypes in golf.  It’s boring, slow-paced, and only old people want to play golf. But, with enough convincing from my mom, I went to my first summer class with the First Tee. At the first class, the coaches were all so nice and welcoming. We introduced ourselves and then we went on the driving range. The moment I made my first swing and hit the ball, I was hooked. I never felt anything more exciting and thrilling than swinging the club, so I hit ball after ball until I ran out of balls to hit. From that day on, I went to each class, with the mindset of trying to learn as much as I can to reach the highest class level: Ace.  Along with learning golf, we learned life skills as well.  For instance, we learned an acronym called STAR to help make decisions both on and off the golf course.  STAR stands for Stop, Think, Anticipate, and Respond.  On the course, it helps you get out of tough situations, like when you’re in the trees or in the deep rough. Off the course, it helps you learn life skills, like how to talk to people or deal with obstacles in life. After a couple of years, I finally made it to Ace. While I was in Ace, Glendale Country Club was thinking about starting a caddying program that would be eligible for the Chick Evans Scholarship. Glendale contacted the Program Director, Evan Johnsen, to see if any juniors were interested in this opportunity.  Mr. Johnsen then contacted me, and I officially became a caddy at Glendale.  At first, caddying was a little difficult.  I knew the etiquettes of playing golf, which helped tremendously, yet I wasn’t quite sure about caddying etiquette.  Not to mention carrying a golf bag in the Pacific Northwest weather can be wet, to say the least. But over time, I learned how to caddy properly and picked up tricks here and there (always have a rain jacket in the bag).  After about 2 years of caddying, I applied to the Evans Scholarship and I got it! Looking back, the First Tee has given me things I wouldn’t have even dreamed of. I made close friends that I still talk to today, I learned valuable life skills that isn’t taught anywhere else, I learned how to play golf, and I got a scholarship that is/will change my life.  I am very thankful for both the First Tee and the Chick Evans Scholarship for the wonderful opportunities and experiences it has given me, and I want to thank you all for reading my experience/adventure with the First Tee and the Evans Scholarship!

Thomas in a Birdie level class in 2015, at Willows Run Golf Complex.

Thomas in his Ace level class in 2019, at Aldarra Golf Club.


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Leaving a Lasting Impression

In the summer of 2012, Austin Picinich attended his first class with The First Tee of Greater Seattle. He was just 7 years old, bright-eyed and eager to learn about the game of golf. Over the years, Austin applied himself and worked his way through the different levels of the program. Now age 14 and with “Eagle” status, Austin represents a small group of participants who are advanced their mastery of golf and life skills. Austin has made friends, impressed his coaches, competed in chapter tournaments like the Week 9 Championship, was selected as a PGA Junior League team captain and All-Star, and also serves as a volunteer junior coach for younger students.

Austin demonstrating his coaching skills at Willows Run Golf Complex in 2018.

Austin always volunteers to post the daily lesson on the class board. With that handwriting, no one objects!

Austin playing on and coaching his PGA Junior League team in 2016.

Austin is an ambitious young man, and has many talents. When he isn’t playing or teaching golf, his other true passion is art. He likes to create landscapes, people, wildlife… and occasionally golf scenes! This year, Austin decided to take on a new challenge, and one that would combine his passions for golf, art, and The First Tee program. To commemorate his love for the program, and to display for future generations to come, Austin set out to paint a mural at Crossroads Par-3 Golf Course, where he first learned to play. Painting a mural is no small task, and it took Austin several months and many hours of hard work to complete. On Friday, November 8th, Austin proudly hung his finished piece of work on the wall at Crossroads Par-3. And for decades and generations to come, families and young golfers will be inspired by his masterpiece.

Here is a brief Q&A with the artist, Austin Picinich:

What inspired you to create this mural?

I was inspired to create this mural because artwork is an excellent tool to brighten up an environment. Several years ago, a First Tee coach planted the seed of “Wouldn’t it be cool to paint a mural at Crossroads?” I loved the idea, but the project seemed really big at the time. As time went by the idea stuck in my head, and I just had to figure out how to make it work. While measuring the workspace, the idea came to me of painting the mural on a large sheet of plywood as opposed to the wall itself. This made the project seem more realistic that I could paint it at home instead of spending 50+ hours at the pro shop to paint. I have always loved to paint big, and I thought the bigger the better for this project.

How did you get interested in art?

I have been interested in art since a young age, and I began to paint when I was about seven years old. I have been inspired by many artists along the way, and love to attend art festivals and galleries. In my work I merge realism with my imagination and add my own twist of brighter colors that make the subject pop.

How are painting/art similar to golf?

Art and painting are similar to golf in many ways. Both art and golf involve visualizing the desired outcome and being creative of how to execute the plan. When I hit a shot into the lip of a bunker or under a tree, I must be creative of how I want to play the shot. This is similar to how creativity plays a big role in the planning of a painting.

What is your hope for the legacy of this mural? 

My hope for the legacy of this mural is that it will inspire other kids to tackle projects or goals they think too big to accomplish.

Austin lives in Kirkland, Washington and is currently a freshman at Juanita High School. He is pictured here with his dad, Greg, battalion Chief with the Kirkland Fire Department. Austin can usually be found in school, at the golf course, or creating new artwork. Check out Austin’s full gallery of art on his website: www.austinsart.net.

Thank you Austin for leaving a lasting impression on future generations!